Families

Why are we all so intent on wounding each other verbally at times? We say things or make accusations that we know maybe unjust. Families are sometimes the worst at hurting each other, the love is like a double edged sword, cutting through the ties and bonds,creating pain and despair, worry and regret, unsolved problems and unhealed wounds. sometimes its impossible to repair these breaks, communication fails us, and we close doors and build barriers. The pain tears at your heart, but no one promised all could be perfect, the family relationship can be one of the most difficult. The quest to be the best, the most important...the most loved. The psychological interactions leave much at times to be desired. Love should bring faith, hope and empathy. We are not all the same so allow us room to breath and grow.

Torment

Our souls are at times a battlefield on which we wage war against ourselves. How many have suffered a soul in torment, through excess of passion raging against jealousy and envy, believing it to be a sensation of reason. If I could bring peace to your soul then I would offer you tranquility and acceptance.

starting over

I´m back! having been zapped by a virus that wiped everything and disabled my computer. It was like losing a part of me....don´t you just love those people that set things off on a destruction trail.

Open your eyes in another way and journey within yourself,

the journey is long but fulfilling.

You will find a link to my new blog in the side panel..Spiritual Essences

Absence

I have been absent from this blog for a while as I have been organising parts of my work.
This blog has experienced problems, at times not being able to post.
I will continue updating this blog but you may like to visit
my new blog which is slightly different.

http://spiritualessences.blogspot.com

I look forward to your coninuing visits and any comments you may wish to leave.

visualise

To obtain a quality of life it is important to have a positive vision and outlook. Visualisation, is one of the best forms of positive vision, to avoid obsesive and negative thoughts. Once you learn to visualise correctly you can prevent the damage that negative thought brings. You are able to mentally take yourself to a space thats full of light and positivity, increasing self esteem and energy. Sit comfortably, close your eyes and your mind to outer influences, if your veery stressed you can imagine yourself showering under a blue waterfall, the light fills you with energy and washes away your stress. Visualise outdoor places, so as you breath profoundly so you breath the different scent and fresh air of this location.

Who Am I?

Sometimes we need to ask ourselves, who am I? OK we know who we are but sometimes we do not reveal all our true identity, we keep things tucked away inside. I was having a conversation with someone who told me that really they were not the quiet, contented person people had thought she was. Inside she was raring to shout out NO! I don´t want to do this, and reveal a hidden creativity within. Why don¨t you ?I asked, ..............."I can´t not at my age," she replied.


"Why not?" i asked again. It turned out she was afraid of shocking her partner, Take it a step at a time, I advised, maybe he might like this hidden part of you. She decided she couldn't but may one day talk to him about it. Everyone has the right to be the person they truly are, as long as it does not cause harm to others. I have always been what I am inside and maybe that was what made life difficult for me at times, but I will always be faithful to the person I am inside. Don´t hide precious parts of you inside, share them with others, who knows what pleasure we may bring into the lives of people close to us.

colours

We all have a favourite colour, and from that colour come many different shades which we use, wear or like. What if suddenly you change your favourite colour...does that tell us something about your emotional state? People will buy black when they are depressed or sad, they buy nuetral colours when they are tired or stressed. if you buy clothes in brilliant colours this may say that you are feeling weak and without energy for your commitments.....when something changes drastically in colour, analyse and think why such a change has occured. colour without doubt tells us many things, it allows us to read the emotions of others.